Steve Boorstein - Stroke Survivor, Author and Motivational Keynote Speaker - Amplify Speakers

STEVE BOORSTEIN

Boulder, Colorado
Author of Different StrokesKnown Nationwide as The Clothing DoctorThe Today Show, The View, Inside EditionSpokesperson for Tide, Whirlpool & OxiCleanKeynotes for Saks Fifth Avenue, Nordstrom & ChanelAuthor of Five BooksHost, My Stroke Speaks PodcastNearly Two Decades as a Stroke Survivor

Read More About Steve Boorstein

The longer story behind his keynotes, including the first career that makes the second one land, and what clinical audiences say afterward.

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About Steve Boorstein

Steve Boorstein has lived two lives, and he talks about both of them. In the first he was a television personality, an author and a national brand spokesperson. In the second he is a stroke survivor who had to relearn how to read a book, tie a shoe and find his way home from six blocks away. What he does on a stage is put those two lives next to each other and let a room draw its own conclusions.

His first career was built on service. Steve ran one of the premier dry-cleaning businesses in Washington, D.C., with a clientele that included Supreme Court justices, U.S. presidents, professional athletes, entertainers and diplomats, and more than twenty-five years of it came down to one question he asked over and over: How can I please you?

That reputation made him "The Clothing Doctor." He wrote four books teaching consumers how to care for and preserve what was in their closets, became a spokesperson for Tide, Whirlpool and OxiClean, and appeared on The Today Show, The View, Inside Edition and dozens of other national programs. His articles and interviews ran in Reader's Digest, The Washington Post, The Chicago Tribune, Style Magazine and National Enquirer. He keynoted conventions across the clothing and dry-cleaning industry and gave presentations for Saks Fifth Avenue, Nordstrom and Chanel.

Then he retired. Healthy, happy, married thirty years, he and his wife left Bethesda, Maryland, for Boulder, Colorado, looking forward to the next chapter. Two years later, a bizarre skiing accident on the mountain tore a carotid artery. Steve had a stroke on the operating table and woke up in the ICU with left-side paralysis. He could not add two plus two. He could not read four words in a row. His hand, as he tells it, was face-down in the mashed potatoes.

Four years into recovery he started speaking to nurses, physicians and therapists, offering the one perspective a medical textbook cannot supply: what the room looks like from the bed. He gives voice to the loss of identity, the confusion, and the brutal arithmetic of discovering that what was once automatic is now hard, and often impossible. He does it without self-pity and with a great deal of humor, because humor is the piece of his survival kit he says he would not have made it without.

Sitting in his own support group, Steve met survivors using canes, walkers and wheelchairs, and some just emerging from comas, and concluded that his own stroke was a drop in the bucket next to what many of them carried. So he asked whether anyone wanted to be interviewed. Twenty survivors, spouses and caregivers said yes. That became Different Strokes: An Intimate Memoir for Stroke Survivors, Families and Caregivers — two years of writing at the speed his brain could think, published by a New York agent. He has also written a song for survivors and, still in the early stages of recovery, walked onstage and delivered a stand-up set to a standing ovation.

Nearly two decades on, Steve brings something very few speakers can: the view from long after rehabilitation ends, when a person is no longer recovering so much as living, adapting and reinventing. He does not fit neatly into motivational speaker, healthcare speaker or storyteller. He is all three at once, and audiences tend to laugh with him, at him, and eventually at themselves. He lives in Boulder.

  • Author of five books, including Different Strokes, an intimate memoir built on interviews with twenty survivors, spouses and caregivers
  • National television personality featured on The Today Show, The View, Inside Edition and numerous other programs
  • Brand spokesperson for Tide, Whirlpool and OxiClean, reaching millions of consumers as "The Clothing Doctor"
  • Presented for Saks Fifth Avenue, Nordstrom and Chanel and keynoted conventions throughout the clothing and dry-cleaning industry
  • Keynoted the AtlantiCare Stroke Summit with Jefferson Neurosurgical Associates and a medical convention at Caesars Palace
  • Host of the My Stroke Speaks Podcast and a regular guest of hospital stroke support groups, who recommend him on to other hospitals

Watch Steve In Action

Steve keeps two video libraries: the stroke journey and the television years.

Speaking Topics

ResilienceOvercoming AdversityHealth & WellnessEmpathyAdaptabilityPerspectiveHumorPatient ExperienceCaregivingDisability InclusionReinventionStorytelling

Steve's signature keynote. 45 to 60 minutes. Ideal for corporate retreats, leadership conferences, employee appreciation events, wellness initiatives, associations and nonprofits.

Remember, this is not the end. It is where we begin.

Steve's stroke is the story, but the lessons are about life. He takes an audience from a comfortable retirement in Boulder to an ICU bed, through the years of rebuilding that followed, and out the other side into a second act nobody planned for him.

This is not a recovery talk. It is a working demonstration of what people do when the life they built stops being available, delivered by someone who has had eighteen years to think about it and who is very funny about the parts that were not funny at the time.

Program Takeaways

  • Move forward when circumstances change instead of waiting for them to change back
  • Let go of how things used to be, which is where adaptability actually starts
  • Use perspective to change how a team responds to a challenge
  • Build the kind of empathy that makes connections, and teams, stronger
  • Break down barriers with humor rather than hiding behind it
  • Treat unexpected adversity as an opening for reinvention

For clinical audiences. 45 to 60 minutes. Ideal for stroke summits, nursing and rehabilitation conferences, neuroscience programs, grand rounds, patient experience initiatives and caregiver events.

Steve began speaking to nurses, physicians and therapists four years into his own recovery, and he has been invited back by hospital after hospital since.

He walks a clinical room through the emotional, physical and cognitive realities that follow a stroke: the loss of identity, the confusion, the tasks that were automatic on Tuesday and impossible on Thursday. Clinicians consistently tell him the same thing afterward, which is that it changed how they treat the patient who cannot answer them.

Program Takeaways

  • See a full day through the eyes of a survivor rather than a chart
  • Understand the loss of identity and disorientation that follow a stroke
  • Recognize what was once simple and is now hard, or impossible
  • Hear why asking for help is a strength and not a weakness
  • Separate a person from a disability that does not define them
  • Carry a perspective back to the bedside that is not in the textbooks

For survivors, caregivers and wellbeing programming. 45 to 60 minutes. Ideal for corporate wellness programs, support groups, employee wellbeing initiatives, community organizations and health system patient programming.

Humor became an essential part of the survival kit. Under the weight of it, he would have caved without it.

Steve interviewed twenty survivors, spouses and caregivers for his book and came away with a working inventory of what people actually reach for on the worst days. This keynote hands that inventory to the room.

It is candid about grief and about the relationships, money and identity a long recovery costs. It is also, reliably, funny, because Steve is convinced that laughing is a tool and not a distraction from the work.

Program Takeaways

  • Assemble the practical tools that carry a person through a long recovery
  • Use humor as a coping mechanism rather than a deflection
  • Choose gratitude and perspective over despair when comparison would be easier
  • Give voice to what survivors and families struggle to say out loud
  • Support a colleague, patient or family member without slipping into pity
  • Leave with language for the conversations everyone has been avoiding

Steve customizes every presentation to your audience and is also available for fireside chats, moderated Q&A, panel appearances, support group sessions and book signings.

What People Say

He had me close to tears more than once. I am an emergency room nurse, and it will give doctors and nurses a completely different perspective of a stroke survivor. I think it will change my practice forever, especially with patients who come in unresponsive or aphasic.

Emergency Room Nurse, Medical Convention at Caesars Palace

The lecture was very well received by the physicians, nurses and general attendees of the Stroke Summit. The consensus from the evaluations was that it was exceptionally well prepared and informative.

Neuroscience & Trauma Program Director, Jefferson Neurosurgical Associates at AtlantiCare

Steve's book will not only help people avoid stroke, but it is a must-read for those who have a brain attack, and for friends and family.

John Newcombe, Wimbledon Champion and Stroke Survivor

I delayed my response a little to get feedback from the group, and it is all positive. People really enjoyed hearing your story, and I know a few will be looking for your book.

Nichole Otto, Stroke Program & Outreach Coordinator, UCHealth

Members found the presentation incredibly validating, through Steve's positive, uplifting, funny and relatable take on the experience. I highly recommend Steve if you are looking for someone empathetic, inspirational and funny.

Kristina Y., Community Stroke Support Group Co-Facilitator

It was very validating for them to hear that somebody else is sharing these same symptoms, especially the emotional aspect of it. Steve is welcome back anytime.

Longmont Stroke Support Group

Selected Stages & Media

Saks Fifth AvenueNordstromChanelAtlantiCare Regional Medical CenterJefferson Neurosurgical AssociatesCaesars PalaceUCHealthTideWhirlpoolOxiCleanThe Today ShowThe ViewInside EditionReader's DigestThe Washington PostThe Chicago TribuneStyle MagazineNational Enquirer